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The Beauty Of Icebreakers For Your Women’s Ministry

Have you ever noticed that sometimes when we meet for a group gathering in the women’s ministry it can be challenging to get everyone seated and focused on what you’re going to be doing? Some small church women’s groups find that there can be a bit of an awkward gap as group members arrive,  especially if they have come alone and don’t know how to engage others that they don’t know very well.

One of our main goals for women’s ministry is to encourage connection and building relationships within our small church! We want to help you to bridge those moments with these icebreakers for your women’s ministry by ensuring that:

  • Your women feel welcomed and valued right away.
  • You’re encouraging people to mix and get to know others in a fun way.
  • You’re setting the tone for the rest of your meeting and that tone is fun.

Two Good Ideas To Set The Tone

Most of our small churches have greeters on Sunday mornings. Those volunteers, whose job it is to make sure that all the guests that walk in the doors of your church feel welcomed, why not have that same experience for your women’s ministry gathering?

Station someone at the door to open it and smile warmly, greet group members by name, and welcome them in. Direct them to where they can be seated or find coffee, or whatever you start your meeting off with. This is a perfect way to make everyone feel that they are an important part of your group!

Our other suggestion is to use icebreakers. We have found that these icebreakers for your women’s ministry are:

  • Great ways of helping women to engage with each other. 
  • Easy to use, whether you are using them at an event, at Bible studies, or just a regular women’s ministry gathering.
  • A fun and simple way for group members to share about themselves on a comfortable level. 
  • Used with any size group.

In this article, we are going to share some of our favorite icebreakers with you and we think you’ll agree that they are just perfect to use in small church women’s ministry groups.

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10 Great Icebreakers For Your Women’s Ministry

We know that many of you have very small women’s groups and that’s one of the best things about Icebreakers, you don’t need a certain number of people to use them. They are flexible and we have included a variety of topics and styles for you to choose from.

1. Sweet-Sour Or Salty

You Will Need:

  • Printed cards enough for each guest to get one, see directions below. Cards will have a heading of either “Sweet”, “Sour”, or “Salty”.
  • Underneath each heading, provide an explanation/directions of how to share when asked.
  • Sweet – share a sweet memory in your life, a favorite sweet treat, or a sweet gift you have received from someone.
  • Sour – share a ‘soured’ moment in your life, perhaps something breaking down, a failed attempt at a new hobby or recipe, or a job that went sour and you had to move on.
  • Salty – share a ‘salty’ memory from the ocean or a ‘flavorful’ dish you have eaten and loved. Fold the cards up and place them in a basket. As group members arrive, have a volunteer handing them out to everyone, instruct them to bring them to their seat and be thinking about their answer but don’t share it until asked!

How To Play:

After you begin your meeting, ask the women to share what is on their card and what came to their mind. If you have a very small number of women (under 5), you could ask them to each share from all the categories to make more conversation. If you have a larger group, you could have each table share with each other instead of taking the time for everyone to share in the large group.

This is a fun way to get to know memories from your group members. It can also provide commonality connection points, i.e., “Oh, you went to San Diego beach? I went there when I was 5!” This leads to other conversations. For extra fun, serve refreshments based on the title of the game!

2. A Rose By Any Other Name

You Will Need: 

  • 3 signs printed to have up front for people to see. You could write it on a chalkboard or whiteboard, or have a digital sign on a screen or poster board signs.
  • Sign 1 – A fully mature rose dropping some petals.
  • Sign 2 – A small bud, still growing.
  • Sign 3 – A partially open rose drinking in the nourishment.

How To Play:

Explain to your group members that you would like them to describe where they feel like they are in their life right now by using one of the 3 rose signs. You can be the first person to go, and lead by example!

As a leader, be aware of what some of your women are saying in this exercise, it may open up avenues of need or ways you can encourage them or pray with them!

A nice touch would be to have a bunch of roses and give one to each of your women as they leave as a thank you for coming!

3. Four Corners

You Will Need:

  • A list of categories to read.
  • Number 4 spots, preferably in the corners of your meeting room.
  • Use painter’s tape, chalk,  or numbers written on poster board

How To Play:

As the leader reads the categories and corresponding number choices, group members will walk to their chosen numbered corner and stand.

Category Suggestions:

  • Best Flavor Ice Cream: Chocolate, Vanilla, Fudge Ripple, Pistachio.
  • Favorite Restaurant Cuisine: Italian, Chinese, BBQ, Sandwich & Salad.
  • Best Way To Spoil Me: Mani-Pedi, Massage, Retail Therapy, Alone With a Book.
  • Pets I Enjoy: Dogs, Cats & Kittens, Farm Animals, Cute Stuffies on the bed!
  • Types of Books For Me: Romance, Mystery, Biographies, Give Me a Magazine.

This Icebreaker activity will get your group up and moving. There will be much laughter, especially if you give them a time limit to make their choices! Keep in mind, for those with limited mobility, you could also play this game seated and give all of your group members 4 labeled plates to hold up for their answers instead.

4. Table Talk Teasers

You Will Need:

  • Questions printed on a card. 2 Questions per card. Put cards in inexpensive frames.
  • Set up tables with 2 chairs on each side of the table. 1 pair at each end, a total of 4.
  • Place a framed question card at each end of the table. If you have a larger number of people you could put 3 sets of chairs & questions at each table.

Question Ideas:

  • What was the first paid job you ever had?
  • What is the furthest you have traveled from this spot?
  • What is the best vacation you have ever taken?
  • What was your favorite activity or hobby when you were a child?
  • Do you remember your first date?
  • What was your best subject in high school?  Your worst?
  • What do you love to spend time doing, but never seem to have enough time to do it?

How To Play:

The leader directs everyone to find a chair. You will ring a bell or blow a whistle when it’s time to start. Answer the question cards to your friend across the table. When the time is up (2 minutes), the leader will sound the alarm, and people on one side of the table (designated by the leader), will move to the next chair on their right and the people on the other side of the table will move one seat to their left. Continue the same process until you have made your way around the room or the time is up.

This is a fun way to get to know several people and it keeps the questions lively and moving. Lots of laughter with this one. This game is the perfect lead into more conversations after the meeting!

5. The Talking Tray

You Will Need:

  • A large tray to place a selection of random items. Be sure to have enough items for each group member to hold one.
  • Ideas for items on the tray: a decorative pin, a postcard, a new flip-flop, a pair of scissors, a brightly colored marker, a roll of pennies, an empty frame, a small container of buttons, a safety pin, a deck of cards, a small decorative statue, a teacup and saucer, a bell, a salt shaker, etc. 

How To Play:

As group members arrive at your meeting, instruct them to take one item to hold onto. When everyone is there, the leader will explain that you need to think of how this item might describe you. This could be physically, a personality trait, something you do or have done, etc. Be creative!

This icebreaker activity can really stretch your women to think of answers and you may find others suggesting things for those around them! It’s fun to see what everyone comes up with and it’s a small insight into their life!

6. First-Last-Most Game

You Will Need:

  • Your prompt sheet for the leader.
  • Small pieces of paper and pens for the group members.

How To Play:

Explain to the group that you will be giving them a category, in the ‘First’ round. You will ask for volunteers to raise their hand and share an answer about their life.

In the ‘Last’ round it will be a quick rapid-fire listing of categories and if the category fits you, you will stand up.

In the ‘Most’ round it will be 3 questions. You will write down the answer to each question and then total your answer. The person with the highest total wins a small prize and applause, of course!

Categories For ‘First’ Round:

  • First day of high school memory.
  • The first time you saw your spouse.
  • The first time you wore formal wear.
  • The first time you had to do a public speech.

Categories For ‘Last’ Round:

  • If yesterday was the last time you were at the grocery store, stand up.
  • If yesterday was the last time you washed dishes, stand up.
  • If yesterday was the last time you mailed a letter-stand up.
  • If the last time you had a child was more than 10 years ago, stand up.
  • If the last time you kissed your husband was less than 3 hours ago, stand up.
  • If the last time you prayed was less than 12 hours ago, stand up.
  • If the last time you talked to your child on the phone was less than 4 hours ago, stand up.

Categories For ‘Most’ Round:

  • We want to know who has the most pairs of shoes in their closet.
  • We want to know who has gone to school for the most number of years, as a student.
  • We want to know who has the most pieces of jewelry on their body.

This is just a fun way to get your meeting started and have people paying attention to who is speaking, while finally getting the answer to the burning question of who really does own the most pairs of shoes! To top off all the fun, who doesn’t love a prize?

7. Personal Points Game

You Will Need:

  • Paper & pens for each group member.
  • A category list with point values.
  • A prize for the winner.

How To Play:

The leader reads the categories, and if it’s true about you, you receive the points for it. At the end of the game, add up your points and reveal your total.

Personal Points Categories:

Give yourself 2 points if you:

  • You are wearing socks.
  • Have a hairbrush in your purse.
  • If you went to college.
  • You have pets at home. 
  • Have dirty dishes in your sink. 
  • Had to get gas today

Just have fun with it and make up your own categories!

This is a perfect low-key way to reveal some personality traits of your group members, make connections with common themes, and it’s fun to play together.

8. 2 Truths & A Dream

You Will Need: 

  • paper & pens for each group member 

How To Play:

If you have a smaller group, then invite everyone to share. If you have a larger group and don’t have time for everyone to share, then choose 8 people to share.

Each person chosen, or whoever volunteers, comes to the front of the room and shares 2 truths about themselves, on any subject or category. Then, 1 thing that is something they would like to do. Don’t list them in any order and word them all like you have done them.

Then, the audience gets to choose which item is the dream. Write their answer down for each person who comes up to speak. In the end, they all reveal their ‘dream’ statements.

You may be surprised by some of the things you learn about your small church group members. Sharing something they would like to do is also a great opportunity for follow-up conversations and connections with the individuals.

9. Toss It

You Will Need: 

  • A beach ball or other small ball to toss
  • Categories written on cards to be drawn out of a basket at random

How To Play:

The leader will draw a category card out of the basket and toss the ball to a table. That table will give 3 answers to the category and then toss the ball to the next table, where they will give 3 answers and toss. Continue to do this until one table cannot come up with 3 answers. There is a 1-minute time limit for the table to come up with the answers!

Change categories and continue on until your time for games is up.

This is a great game that brings an air of excitement and fun. Your women will laugh as they try to think fast and then toss the ball without it getting out of control. Laughter is a wonderful way to draw people closer!

10. Christian Questions Conversation Starters

You Will Need:

  • The list of Christian conversation questions. There’s a printable sheet at the end of this article!
  • Print out the questions. Cut them into strips. Make sure to have enough for each group member to have one. Fold and place in a bag.
  • A variety of stickers. You will need pairs of identical stickers, individually cut. Have a total number of stickers to match the number of people at your gathering. Place the stickers, all mixed up, in one bag.

How To Play:

As group members arrive, they will choose one sticker and one question from each bag. They will hold on to these and not show anyone until it’s time.

The leader will explain that when they say go, you are to go and find the person who has your sticker match. That will be your partner.

You will each share the question you drew out of the bag and answer it with each other. 

This icebreaker activity brings on some deeper level conversations between individuals and hopefully will be a great building block for more conversations and developing a relationship.

Can’t Wait For Your Next Women’s Ministry Event?

Are you excited to try one of these icebreakers for your women’s ministry? We hope you are! We know that by sharing just a few simple, yet fun and engaging icebreaker activities, you can start to see more connection in your group. When we start to find things we have in common, we naturally start to converse more. When we have fun and laugh together, we are more open to developing relationships and making connections over coffee or lunch. We pray that these fun games will be the tip of the ‘icebreaker’ for your group to be impacted!

Let us know if you try any of these icebreakers for your women’s ministry. We would love to hear how it went. Post it in our Facebook community and encourage others to step out and try it too!

Read More:

Why Icebreakers Are Important In Small Churches 

10 Must-Have Women’s Ministry Mixers For Small Churches